9Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Was chatting to several people last nite and I found out that indeed,the world and relationships between people are often not as simple as it seems.
I shall just quote 2 examples which i heard last night.
Hmm...it will indeed be beneficial for me if i can do this entry in a report style of writing,to further prepare me for my education in the university next year.Remember,my aim is to improve my English as stated in my virgin posting.Although the hymen has longed been penetrated,(that is an analogy to describe me having posted plenty of entries since my debut post),I still feel that there is still plenty of room for improvement.So here we go!


Case study 1

Introduction:B teaches tuition at various locations while trying to supplement a very low income,courtesy of a organisation that practises modern day slavery.In his course of work,he comes into contact with many young kids and also their parents.
Problem:1 of these parents,let's call her M,is a lonely housewife who is constantly neglected by her husband who is busy with work.M is also in the 30-35 age group and has maintained her looks well. In a call from M to B discussing about her kid's academic progress, the conversation eventually lead to her talking about her problems at home too.Realising that B was a relatively good listener and that he can sort of hit the right frequency with her,plus the fact that she is lonely,M decided to get his msn contact so that they can have more similar conversations in the future.Although this may seem like an innocent case of a housewife being devoid of company,B is worried that it may lead to an illicit relationship with a MILF.(For the uninitiated,please check up the net for the meaning of MILF.)
Ti Kor's Golden Advice: There is no wrong in continuing to be friends with this MILF =) however,always remember to draw a line between friends and becoming partners in a forbidden relationship. Always trust Ti Kor, he has seen many such cases before and definitely the best person to trust.

Case study 2

Introduction: X has known Q for many years as a family friend.They have been seeing each other around for a few years already but only recently,they have formed an even closer relationship.
Problem: Q has held a torch for X for many years already with X unknowing about that.But because of them becoming close friends recently, things somehow got out of hand with her admitting her liking for him and X,being a true blue hot blooded male who had not had a girlfriend for the past few years,allowed the making out to begin.However,a fairy tale is not about to begin right here.In fact,nowhere near that at all.The problem here is that Q has a boyfriend of 2 years,and that although Q is sure that X is the man for her,she is afraid to break the heart of this boyfriend.
Ti Kor's Golden Advice: X,who admitted his liking for Q,should just go all out for her.The key here lies with Q.Although breaking the heart of a man who have endured through thick and thin with her for 2 years is definitely hard,Ti Kor can tell you safely that just delaying the process will make it even worse for this boyfriend.If Q is really so sure that X is the man for her,she should just break this news to the boyfriend in a soft yet honest approach.Based on Ti Kor's personal experience, hanging out with the boyfriend while the girl's heart is somewhere else is a suffering of a most immense level.I urge Q to consider her options well,and to make a quick but sure decision in this.



On a separate note,I've really been touched by all the fan mail and praises that I have been receiving."Great blog!" and "I love your blog!I've been going to bigbrohu.blogspot.com ever since its debut posting and have been hooked on it ever since!" are just one of the many examples of comments i get from my fans.A particular touching note came from Chinese High good friend David Wu, who was quoted as saying "In the cold winterness of England,bigbrohu.blogspot.com has indeed brought some warmth into my heart."

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